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Thursday, February 14, 2013

An exciting announcement from RP3 and Sar!

If you thought this was an engagement announcement, sorry y'all. But not that sorry. (I thought a vlog would be perfect for this announcement but he mentioned that then you guys would really think we had an engagement surprise. Boo!)

It's Valentine's Day, so it's time for a little love story.

Confession about me and RP3:


Okay, I'm sure that if you were around at all back in August, my experiences in online dating were less than secret. I wasn't quiet about it: I was lonely, had a hard time meeting anybody appropriately aged, all my friends were getting married, and had just found out I had been cheated on by my previous boyfriend. Say it with me: ew.

I had tried online dating before, but for some reason, I decided it was going to be a blogable experience this time around. I can't remember why I didn't blog about it the first time I did it. I'm sure I was embarassed, or worried that someone would judge me. Last year, though, I started blogging about it.

And the response was incredible.

Firstly, so many people had tried online dating. I had DMs on Twitter of friends who had met their significant others online but were always afraid to tell the story via social media. I had comment after comment of people saying how they loved how open I was about the experience. I had friends and strangers email me their stories of the good and bad of online dating to be featured on the blog. And I had a heap of people ask questions about how to effectively online date.

Throughout this experience, I've realized there's a huge elephant in the room: people don't know how to online date. At all. They suck at it. Not on purpose, heck no, but it's hard to sell yourself. After talking with my online-turned-real-life-lover RP3, he agreed: our friends are just not good at finding someone via online dating. And they need help.

Thus, our announcement: we're starting a weekly feature!

Written by both me and RP3 (and trust me, he's a great writer), every Wednesday we'll be featuring a different component of online dating. From choosing a website, writing a profile, taking an attractive picture, sending emails, exchanging personal information, first dates, and falling in love, we'll go week-by-week to talk about the best way to online date for both genders

'Cuz we got your back, yo.

Aren't you excited?! We sure are, but we'd still love your input: what questions would you like to see answered?

25 comments:

Katie said...

Though I do not need to online date for obvious reasons haha, I LOVE this idea! I think a LOT of people are in need of this, and you two are just the people to help!

Leah said...

aw girl I was opening this post with an urgency thinking it was an engagement announcement! Aww... hopefully that will be your next announcement. In the mean time I love you being so open and honest with your online dating and can't wait to read all about it! I had an idea that you and RP3 met that way after your Xmas newsletter, that PS was the most adorable thing ever!

Paige Brown said...

Love you and the boy! This will be so fun :)

Savanah said...

this is exciting!! I think I told you this before but if I didn't, John and I are an online dating success!! If you ever need any extra thoughts I'd be happy to chime in ;)

Kaitlyn's Life and Blogs said...

Aww. You know how much I love this. :) :). I think you should also feature bloggers that have met through online dating also. If the couples want to of course. ;).

Happy Valentine's Day by the way you two!!!! :).

Sara said...

Such a good idea! Even though I don't need to online date, I can't wait to read what you guys come up with.

P.S. That picture is adorable. :-)

Ashley Barnhill said...

I love this idea!!! I met my husband on match.com and was originally so awkward about telling people how we met. I have a "cover story" that we met at happy hour. After we got engaged, I guess I just quit worrying about what people think. And just like you, the more I talked about it, the more I realized how many people have met online/dated online. It's crazy!! I'm so glad you are bringing this out in the open. People shouldn't feel awkward to tell others about it and worry about being judged so hopefully this will help others out! :) Happy Valentine's day!

Tamara said...

Damn husband ruining my ability to online date!

But seriously, I think this is a great idea and I imagine you'll have a great following of people who will find it useful.

Actually, I bet those of us who don't need to find a match could use some of these pointers in other parts of our lives. Hello attractive photos! I mean, who wouldn't appreciate help with that?

I'm also excited to get to know RP3 a little more!

Amy said...

Sounds like a great idea! I can't wait to read it.
It's true, most people do NOT know how to online date..AT ALL absolutely pitiful.

Jenn said...

YES! I'm SO, SO, SO excited about this! I'm just starting out online dating and I need all the help I can get! I'm really looking forward to this :)

Mama Bear said...

FANTASTIC idea! What a great way to share the love.

Recently Roached said...

Y'all are the cutest. Can't wait to read :) Let's double date in Austin sometime. Yesssssss!

MarlaJan said...

Love this!!!

MarlaJan said...

Love this!!!

Jaz said...

I think this is a great idea!! I know you know that Chuck and I met online, and there were times when I think that something like this would've been awesome! Its tricky because you don't always know what to say or how things will come across. I agree with another commenter on feauturing success stories of couples who met online. I'll sign up now if you want!

ANDYSTYLE said...

cute ,cute ,pretty photo
follow back, if you like ;) andy

JElisse said...

a. I can not believe you like Kirk. He did nothing but teach us how to waltz during class. I say this and my graduate level Stats instructor was impressed with how much I already knew...so maybe there is a method to the madness?
b. I am not really surprised that hes still around. That man will never die. He stays alive out of spite.
c. I love the other teachers that you mentioned. I also really liked Benedict.

Rachael said...

This is an awesome idea!! :)

Amber said...

This is SUCH a fabulous idea. You know I'm a sucker for loves that began online :) I can't wait to read y'all's tips for everyone!

meg m said...

this is such a great idea!

Micah said...

LOVE this. Especially since we'll be getting RP3's perspective too. :)

P.S. I still think you could make a living at being a freelance online dating consultant, Sar. You could be like the Patti Stanger for online people. :)

Melissa said...

I love it! Haha! :)

Michelle said...

Awesome!! I'm so thrilled you met RP3, but I do kind of miss the horror stories :) I showed them to my best friend who has had plenty of her own OK Cupid situations, and she LOVED them. I'll have to send her your new series as well! I know she would love it.

Michelle said...

Awesome!! I'm so thrilled you met RP3, but I do kind of miss the horror stories :) I showed them to my best friend who has had plenty of her own OK Cupid situations, and she LOVED them. I'll have to send her your new series as well! I know she would love it.

itsmekt said...

what a great idea, cant wait to check this out!